Pondering the Future

On Saturday morning, I was engaged in a chat with No Passing Fancy that covered a wide range of topics. Our chats typically do cover a wide range of subjects ranging from the personal (our plans for the day) to the bigger picture (life in South Africa compared to life in South Dakota). That latter topic is quite interesting as in many ways our lives are profoundly different and in a few they are kind of similar. It is a time of mutual education, I learn much from her and she learns much from me. It is often that some of the things that I learn or start thinking about appear in my brain after the chat has ended.

One of the topics on Saturday was about how neither one of us really feels “relationship worthy” at this time. That’s not going to be the subject of this post, however. I want to talk about what happened as a result of that conversation.

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